Veterans and their Obligations
(SAMMAAN January 2018)
Maj Gen Mrinal Suman
‘Once a soldier, always a soldier’ is an old adage. Nostalgia is an integral trait of every veteran’s personality. We
live and relive memories of the raw courage of the troops we commanded, bonding
of colleagues and esprit de corps of our units. Memories of bygone events,
departed friends, old associations and organisational bonding
provide immense solace, even when age takes its toll on the body and mental
faculties. That is the reason that our morale always remains high and our
spirits continue to soar. We lead a dignified and contented life even with
limited resources at our disposal. That has been the hallmark of our character.
Unfortunately, of late, some veterans have developed some sort
of persecution complex. They have convinced themselves that they are not
getting a fair deal from the country. Resultantly, considerable discontentment
has crept into their thinking. There may be some justification for our disappointment
with the environment, but why let it make us despondent and unhappy. With
considerably enhanced pensions and ever-improving ECHS, we have reasons to look
forward to a blissful old age.
Over the last few years, veteran have been concentrating only on
their demands. What about our obligations? Many veterans feel that after rendering
long service in uniform, they owe nothing more to the country; and that it is
now for the country to reciprocate by looking after them. Even if there is some
merit in such an expectation, it cannot be one-way traffic. We do have certain obligations
to the services and the society.
Our Moral Obligations
Intimacy and intensity of the relationship that ex-servicemen
enjoy with the serving soldiers is an umbilical cord that binds the two into an
everlasting bond. Not only are the veterans treated as repositories of unit
traditions but also considered as conscience-keepers of the regiments. In no
other organisation are the retired personnel treated with so much of respect
and deference. Serving troops look up to us for inspiration. Therefore, nothing
should be done to breach their faith. We owe it to them.
Veterans act as ambassadors of the services. Citizens have
little contact with the serving soldiers who are mostly deployed on the borders.
Public forms its impression and opinion about the services after watching the
conduct of the veterans and judging their value-system. For that reason, the
conduct of veterans has to be above board and worthy of military officers. Being
the emissaries of the services, we cannot let them down through unbecoming
conduct.
Unfortunately, some veterans pay no heed to their obligations to
the services. All arms and services start celebrations of their raising days by
paying homage to their martyrs by laying wreaths at the war memorials. Though
invited, only a handful of veterans attend such solemn ceremonies whereas they
are present in hundreds at evening social functions for a gala evening of drinks
and dinner. Such behaviour reflects poorly on their disposition.
Many veterans proudly display the sticker
‘army’ on their vehicles. But when such a vehicle jumps a red light or flouts
parking norms, public wonders whether the soldiers are any different than the
normal undisciplined citizenry. Similarly, driving without helmet or seat belt is
seen as total disregard for the rules in vogue. Some veterans behave in a
highly noisy and unruly manner while travelling in trains, causing much
discomfort to fellow passengers.
Clothing has a huge influence on others’
perceptions. People judge and respond to others by the way they look and dress.
Many veterans stop taking pride in their appearance. Under the garb of wearing
casual clothes, they dress shabbily. It is distressing to see them visiting
canteens and other facilities unshaven and wearing sloppy footwear. ‘Shabby
turnout produces shabby behaviour’ is an old military dictum.
Some veterans
brusquely declare that they are no more under the Army Act. At the same time,
they are ever ready to announce their rank to demand due courtesies. An untidily
dressed and unkempt veteran was rudely told by a municipality clerk, “Sorry,
but you hardly look like an officer”. Such veterans bring a bad name to the
services.
Visit any services welfare housing society and see the
infighting, petty bickering and squabbles amongst the resident officers. All
the sheen of their gentlemanly behaviour disappears the day they hang their
uniforms. Some go to the extent of complaining against each other to municipal
and state authorities on trivial matters, much to the embarrassment of the
civic authorities who are reluctant to intervene. Petty jealousies make some
veterans conduct themselves in an appalling manner. Their behaviour reveals a
psyche of intolerance and unconcern for others. Strangely, many veterans seem
to suffer from the syndrome – ‘I am unhappy because my neighbour is
happy’.
It is shameful to see some veterans indulging in parochial
behaviour by forming religion/region based groupings. Apparently, the veneer of
secular thinking and nationalist outlook that they displayed in service was
only skin deep. Retirement exposes their true colours as communal and
narrow-minded individuals.
Many veterans find it difficult to forego
service privileges. Unabashedly, they hang on to their helpers (Sahayaks) for years together by pressurizing
the officers who had served under them. They brazenly invoke regimental spirit
for selfish gains. Such blatant misuse of soldiers is an obnoxious sight that
does immense damage to the standing of the services and projects a poor image
of the officer cadre amongst the civilians.
Our Social Obligations
Most social scientists consider the military to be an agent of
social change and a major modernizing force. We, the veterans, retire at a
comparatively young age and enjoy good health. We possess huge untapped potential
to undertake socially beneficial programmes for the betterment of the society
at large. Rather than wasting our post-retirement years in petulance and complaining,
we can impart a noble meaning to our lives by contributing to the society.
There are numerous fields in which we can make a difference. The
choice is entirely ours, as per our proclivity and area of interest. For those
well-meaning veterans who keep wondering as to what community activity should
they participate in; here is a suggestion. Veterans can spearhead a social revolution
in the fields of eye and body donation, thereby bringing about a change in the
thinking of our countrymen. Facts show the magnitude of the challenge the
country faces.
India is home to over 1.2 crore blind people and nearly half of
them suffer due to corneal disorders. Of them, 26 percent are children and 25
percent live below the poverty line. India needs at least one lakh donated eyes
annually for corneal transplantation to restore vision in people with corneal
blindness. However, there is an acute shortage of donated eyes. It is a matter
of shame that India has to look up to Sri Lanka for donated eyes.
Each donation results in imparting vision to two disadvantaged
recipients. Lakhs of people pledge their eyes but only 1 percent result in actual
donation. As the eyes must be recovered within 4 to 6 hours of the death of the
donor, support of the family members is critical. Their indifference results in
the wastage of eyes and non-fulfilment of the wish of the deceased.
Eye removal takes only 10-15 minutes and does not cause any
disfigurement. Either the entire eye (called the globe) may be surgically
removed, or only the cornea may be excised and placed in storage media. The
donated corneas are transplanted to the patients on the waiting list. Donated
eyes which cannot be used for corneal transplantation are used for research and
education purposes.
As regards body donation, it is not only a very noble gesture
but also a big boon for medical research as cadavers (dead bodies) are needed
in medical colleges for studying anatomy and various diseases. Cadavers are
also essential for practicing and developing new surgical techniques.
There are over 140 medical colleges in India
and all are facing an acute shortage of cadavers. Some are forced to make do by
sourcing unclaimed dead bodies from the police. Due to legally mandated
time-lag for their disposal, such dead bodies are received in a rotten and
decayed state. Resultantly, they are of very limited value.
A person can express his will to donate his body after death.
However, he must convince his next of kin to fulfil his wishes. Although no
religion debars body donation, there is a strong mindset against it. Even if a
person pledges his body, his family members decline to donate it. They prefer
to waste the body by burying or burning rather than offering it for a noble
cause. Therefore, education of the family members is of critical importance.
Finally
We, the veterans, are blessed to belong to a unique organisation.
One marvels at the love and respect that the serving soldiers shower on the
veterans. Yes, it is pure selfless love as the veterans can do no favour to the
serving. Therefore, it is incumbent on us not to let them down.
As regards our public demeanour, the issue is very simple. If a veteran
wants to be treated with due deference by the society at large, he must behave
like a gentleman-officer. A veteran’s place in the society is determined by the
way the society views him. Respect
cannot be demanded; it has to be earned. The other option is much simpler, do
not reveal your identity and behave as you like.
We belong to the most progressive segment of the society. The
society has an image of an army officer which is that of an earnest,
compassionate and motivated nationalist. Veterans have a latent and manifest
responsibility in the process of nation building, more so as most of us see
ourselves as the sole guardian of national rectitude. It is for us to
contribute to the national cause by spreading awareness about eye and body
donation. We can indeed usher in a social revolution in the country.
To gift sight to two blind persons is by far the most virtuous
act a human being can undertake; that too without any discomfort, sacrifice or
cost. Lakhs of blind persons continue to remain on the waiting list for years,
hoping one day their turn would come to receive cornea donated by some noble
soul. They suffer their sightless lives in the hope of seeing this beautiful
world one day. Let us, the blessed veterans, not be so self-absorbed that we
prefer to burn our eyes rather than gift vision to the needy. Similarly, body
donation is the ultimate service to the humanity. An inscription on a grave
dedicated to a body-donor reads – ‘Even
in death do we serve life’. It
cannot get nobler! *****